Relationship http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com Advice covering various relationship topics Sat, 06 Sep 2008 15:37:41 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Abusive Relationships Abusive relationships are so painful that I often wonder why it takes so long for us to know that it is abusive, addictive love we are experiencing. The damage created by an abusive relationship only worsens over time, weakening the abused and giving the abuser more power. As the situation contin...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/09/06/abusive-relationships/ Squash and The Unique Selling Proposition of Older Men As I played squash with a young lady recently she commented, "You're pretty good for your age". While I had hoped that she wouldn't have noticed our 30 year age difference, I quickly replied, "There's many a good tune played on an old fiddle." She laughed.

I then began, between strok...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/09/05/squash-and-the-unique-selling-proposition-of-older-men/ Do Not Let Anxiety Get The Better Of You In Your Relationships It can be tough to deal with managing your anxiety while in a relationship. Maintaining a relationship is tough enough let alone having to deal with your anxieties. As a result, here is a list of techniques and suggestions on what to do in managing your anxieties while being in a relationship. http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/09/04/do-not-let-anxiety-get-the-better-of-you-in-your-relationships/ What Do the Words “I Don’t Love You Anymore” Really Mean Have you been blindsided by an unhappy spouse who suddenly announced, "I don't love you anymore"? If so, then you know that these words can split a marriage wide open, along with the heart of the partner who may not have suspected that anything was wrong.

Like most spouses in your situat...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/09/03/what-do-the-words-i-dont-love-you-anymore-really-mean/ Inspiration Life Lessons I’ve Learned Along the Way So Far

  • Some people live in and talk about the past so often it's as if they are planning for the past.

  • The "I'm an adult victim/survivor of (fill in the blank)" culture that we live in does a great disservice to the possibility of change. There comes a time when you hav...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/09/02/inspiration-life-lessons-ive-learned-along-the-way-so-far/ Great Relationships How to Solve Problems and Have Fun Too I recently came across this quote:

    "There is a time in the life of every problem when it is big enough to notice and small enough to solve."

    When problems come in our relationships they can bring a great deal of stress into our lives.

    While problems do bring stress and are imp...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/09/01/great-relationships-how-to-solve-problems-and-have-fun-too/ The Key to a Happy Life - Relationships that Work How do you get on with others? Are all people your brothers and sisters or do you despair of the whole human race? Whichever attitude is most like yours, you may agree that the way we get on with each other is one of the key factors in determining what kind of life we have.

    The different ty...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/31/the-key-to-a-happy-life-relationships-that-work/ The Surprising Secret of Getting Love from Another As a self-loving person, you will recognize that you cannot, ever, make someone else love you, be good to you, be your friend, or be there for you. No matter how hard you try, and especially when you try, you cannot force love, friendship, or caring from another person.

    Have you ever felt s...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/30/the-surprising-secret-of-getting-love-from-another/ Relationships - Please Give Your Head An Opportunity To Decide Relationships in the early phase of formation are guided by heart and physical attraction and needs. How many of us give a chance to our head to decide whether we will relate to a person using our head? Very few of us do that. This irrational process continues for long and may be cause of sufferi...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/29/relationships-please-give-your-head-an-opportunity-to-decide/ Business Relationships - Promises are for Keeping It's a small thing, but it is so vital. In your business relationships, forgetting little things promised, causes erosion of trust and belief in you and all you stand for.

    And ultimately, those little things add up to a lot for your people. And that affects you and in the end, your ...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/28/business-relationships-promises-are-for-keeping/ A Degree In Intimacy The scene was a comedy, and at the same time it was a tragedy. On one hand, it was humorous to see only Fred's eyes peering cautiously over the top of the pillow that covered the rest of him. His wife, Sally, totally disappeared behind her cushion. All I could see was Sally's small hands nervou...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/27/a-degree-in-intimacy/ Are You Ready to Handle an Indigo Child So what's new in the world of spirituality and the new age these days? What's the new talk we keep hearing all about? The talk about the indigo Children is gearing more and more. There are now so many workshops, lectures, books and websites dedicated to discussing this subject. You name it, we...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/26/are-you-ready-to-handle-an-indigo-child/ How Do I Say Goodbye to Someone I Love The Questions

    1. How can I say goodbye when I don't want to?

    2. What if I love someone, and we are no longer together but he/she is moving away?

    3. Can you please explain why some people keep returning to each other after repeated break-ups?

    ...]]>     http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/25/how-do-i-say-goodbye-to-someone-i-love/     Intimacy The Elusive Ingredient in Relationships I'm sure that you know of, or at least have heard of, the importance of intimacy as a critical factor in the success of a relationship. In this article I wish to discuss:

    1. My definition of intimacy.

    2. Reasons why intimacy is an elusive ingredient in most relationships, and,

    ...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/24/intimacy-the-elusive-ingredient-in-relationships/ The High Cost of Resentment and Anger in Marriage Many spouses carry heavy suitcases filled with a collection of anger and resentment from their marriage. Periodically, they unpack these suitcases and review every situation in which they feel they were treated unfairly.

    "Resentment is an extremely bitter diet, and eventually poisonous. I ...]]> http://relationships.everydaywellnessguide.com/2008/08/23/the-high-cost-of-resentment-and-anger-in-marriage/